Dating as a single mum can be scary. Dating for most people, even those who don’t have children is hard too. Now, for single mums, there is usually the children factor to consider.
Most single mus usually put the interests of their children first. So as a mother, you want to be sure that the person you meet will accept and love both you and your children. Usually, for most single mums, dating has to be the full package. Me and my kids or nothing at all.
You may have been in a same-race relationship before and you are probably feeling that maybe it’s about time to try something new. You have registered on an interracial dating site and the first instinct is to hide the fact that you have kids because you are not sure if men from other races will be Ok with dating someone with kids.
The thing with interracial dating sites is that you will always find men of other races who also have children. All they are looking for us a mature and compatible woman to be with and raise a family together. For many men, a woman who is raising a child alone is highly respected and very dependable and reliable. All these are very attractive traits.
At the same time, having a child doesn’t need to be a death sentence on your dating life. You have no idea how many men out there love children and wouldn’t mind being with a single mum.
The no. 1 advice when dating as a single mum
Don’t ever hide the fact that you have children. Kids are not something you can keep from someone forever. Make sure you indicate on your profile that you have kids. When you hide something as important as that, a serious man might wonder… “What else are you ashamed of about yourself?” He might run even before you get the chance to explain.
So don’t let being a single mum be the excuse for not looking for an interracial partner. When dating as a single mum, just be yourself and be true. Id a man wants to be with you, the kids will be a nonissue.